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Casti Connubii - On Christian Marriage
ENCYCLICAL OF POPE PIUS XI ON CHRISTIAN
MARRIAGE DECEMBER 31, 1930
To the Venerable Brethren, Patriarchs,
Primates, Archbishops, Bishops and other Local Ordinaries enjoying Peace
and Communion with the Apostolic See.
Venerable Brethren and Beloved Children, Health
and Apostolic Benediction.
How great is the dignity of chaste wedlock,
Venerable Brethren, may be judged best from this that Christ Our Lord,
Son of the Eternal Father, having assumed the nature of fallen man, not
only, with His loving desire of compassing the redemption of our race,
ordained it in an especial manner as the principle and foundation of
domestic society and therefore of all human intercourse, but also raised
it to the rank of a truly and great sacrament of the New Law, restored
it to the original purity of its divine institution, and accordingly
entrusted all its discipline and care to His spouse the Church.
2. In order, however, that amongst men of every
nation and every age the desired fruits may be obtained from this
renewal of matrimony, it is necessary, first of all, that men's minds be
illuminated with the true doctrine of Christ regarding it; and secondly,
that Christian spouses, the weakness of their wills strengthened by the
internal grace of God, shape all their ways of thinking and of acting in
conformity with that pure law of Christ so as to obtain true peace and
happiness for themselves and for their families.
3. Yet not only do We, looking with paternal
eye on the universal world from this Apostolic See as from a
watch-tower, but you, also, Venerable Brethren, see, and seeing deeply
grieve with Us that a great number of men, forgetful of that divine work
of redemption, either entirely ignore or shamelessly deny the great
sanctity of Christian wedlock, or relying on the false principles of a
new and utterly perverse morality, too often trample it under foot. And
since these most pernicious errors and depraved morals have begun to
spread even amongst the faithful and are gradually gaining ground, in
Our office as Christ's Vicar upon earth and Supreme Shepherd and Teacher
We consider it Our duty to raise Our voice to keep the flock committed
to Our care from poisoned pastures and, as far as in Us lies, to
preserve it from harm.
4. We have decided therefore to speak to you,
Venerable Brethren, and through you to the whole Church of Christ and
indeed to the whole human race, on the nature and dignity of Christian
marriage, on the advantages and benefits which accrue from it to the
family and to human society itself, on the errors contrary to this most
important point of the Gospel teaching, on the vices opposed to conjugal
union, and lastly on the principal remedies to be applied. In so doing
We follow the footsteps of Our predecessor, Leo XIII, of happy memory,
whose Encyclical Arcanum,[1] published fifty years ago, We hereby
confirm and make Our own, and while We wish to expound more fully
certain points called for by the circumstances of our times,
nevertheless We declare that, far from being obsolete, it retains its
full force at the present day.
5. And to begin with that same Encyclical,
which is wholly concerned in vindicating the divine institution of
matrimony, its sacramental dignity, and its perpetual stability, let it
be repeated as an immutable and inviolable fundamental doctrine that
matrimony was not instituted or restored by man but by God; not by man
were the laws made to strengthen and confirm and elevate it but by God,
the Author of nature, and by Christ Our Lord by Whom nature was
redeemed, and hence these laws cannot be subject to any human decrees or
to any contrary pact even of the spouses themselves. This is the
doctrine of Holy Scripture;[2] this is the constant tradition of the
Universal Church; this the solemn definition of the sacred Council of
Trent, which declares and establishes from the words of Holy Writ itself
that God is the Author of the perpetual stability of the marriage bond,
its unity and its firmness.[3]
6. Yet although matrimony is of its very nature
of divine institution, the human will, too, enters into it and performs
a most noble part. For each individual marriage, inasmuch as it is a
conjugal union of a particular man and woman, arises only from the free
consent of each of the spouses; and this free act of the will, by which
each party hands over and accepts those rights proper to the state of
marriage,[4] is so necessary to constitute true marriage that it cannot
be supplied by any human power.[5] This freedom, however, regards only
the question whether the contracting parties really wish to enter upon
matrimony or to marry this particular person; but the nature of
matrimony is entirely independent of the free will of man, so that if
one has once contracted matrimony he is thereby subject to its divinely
made laws and its essential properties. For the Angelic Doctor, writing
on conjugal honor and on the offspring which is the fruit of marriage,
says: "These things are so contained in matrimony by the marriage pact
itself that, if anything to the contrary were expressed in the consent
which makes the marriage, it would not be a true marriage."[6]
7. By matrimony, therefore, the souls of the
contracting parties are joined and knit together more directly and more
intimately than are their bodies, and that not by any passing affection
of sense of spirit, but by a deliberate and firm act of the will; and
from this union of souls by God's decree, a sacred and inviolable bond
arises. Hence the nature of this contract, which is proper and peculiar
to it alone, makes it entirely different both from the union of animals
entered into by the blind instinct of nature alone in which neither
reason nor free will plays a part, and also from the haphazard unions of
men, which are far removed from all true and honorable unions of will
and enjoy none of the rights of family life.
8. From this it is clear that legitimately
constituted authority has the right and therefore the duty to restrict,
to prevent, and to punish those base unions which are opposed to reason
and to nature; but since it is a matter which flows from human nature
itself, no less certain is the teaching of Our predecessor, Leo XIII of
happy memory:[7] "In choosing a state of life there is no doubt but that
it is in the power and discretion of each one to prefer one or the
other: either to embrace the counsel of virginity given by Jesus Christ,
or to bind himself in the bonds of matrimony. To take away from man the
natural and primeval right of marriage, to circumscribe in any way the
principal ends of marriage laid down in the beginning by God Himself in
the words 'Increase and multiply,'[8] is beyond the power of any human
law."
9. Therefore the sacred partnership of true
marriage is constituted both by the will of God and the will of man.
From God comes the very institution of marriage, the ends for which it
was instituted, the laws that govern it, the blessings that flow from
it; while man, through generous surrender of his own person made to
another for the whole span of life, becomes, with the help and
cooperation of God, the author of each particular marriage, with the
duties and blessings annexed thereto from divine institution.
10. Now when We come to explain, Venerable
Brethren, what are the blessings that God has attached to true
matrimony, and how great they are, there occur to Us the words of that
illustrious Doctor of the Church whom We commemorated recently in Our
Encyclical Ad salutem on the occasion of the fifteenth centenary of his
death:[9] "These," says St. Augustine, "are all the blessings of
matrimony on account of which matrimony itself is a blessing; offspring,
conjugal faith and the sacrament."[10] And how under these three heads
is contained a splendid summary of the whole doctrine of Christian
marriage, the holy Doctor himself expressly declares when he said: "By
conjugal faith it is provided that there should be no carnal intercourse
outside the marriage bond with another man or woman; with regard to
offspring, that children should be begotten of love, tenderly cared for
and educated in a religious atmosphere; finally, in its sacramental
aspect that the marriage bond should not be broken and that a husband or
wife, if separated, should not be joined to another even for the sake of
offspring. This we regard as the law of marriage by which the
fruitfulness of nature is adorned and the evil of incontinence is
restrained."[11]
11. Thus amongst the blessings of marriage, the
child holds the first place. And indeed the Creator of the human race
Himself, Who in His goodness wishes to use men as His helpers in the
propagation of life, taught this when, instituting marriage in Paradise,
He said to our first parents, and through them to all future spouses:
"Increase and multiply, and fill the earth."[12] As St. Augustine
admirably deduces from the words of the holy Apostle Saint Paul to
Timothy[13] when he says: "The Apostle himself is therefore a witness
that marriage is for the sake of generation: 'I wish,' he says, 'young
girls to marry.' And, as if someone said to him, 'Why?,' he immediately
adds: 'To bear children, to be mothers of families'."[14]
12. How great a boon of God this is, and how
great a blessing of matrimony is clear from a consideration of man's
dignity and of his sublime end. For man surpasses all other visible
creatures by the superiority of his rational nature alone. Besides, God
wishes men to be born not only that they should live and fill the earth,
but much more that they may be worshippers of God, that they may know
Him and love Him and finally enjoy Him for ever in heaven; and this end,
since man is raised by God in a marvelous way to the supernatural order,
surpasses all that eye hath seen, and ear heard, and all that hath
entered into the heart of man.[15] From which it is easily seen how
great a gift of divine goodness and how remarkable a fruit of marriage
are children born by the omnipotent power of God through the cooperation
of those bound in wedlock.
13. But Christian parents must also understand
that they are destined not only to propagate and preserve the human race
on earth, indeed not only to educate any kind of worshippers of the true
God, but children who are to become members of the Church of Christ, to
raise up fellow-citizens of the Saints, and members of God's
household,[16] that the worshippers of God and Our Savior may daily
increase.
14. For although Christian spouses even if
sanctified themselves cannot transmit sanctification to their progeny,
nay, although the very natural process of generating life has become the
way of death by which original sin is passed on to posterity,
nevertheless, they share to some extent in the blessings of that
primeval marriage of Paradise, since it is theirs to offer their
offspring to the Church in order that by this most fruitful Mother of
the children of God they may be regenerated through the laver of Baptism
unto supernatural justice and finally be made living members of Christ,
partakers of immortal life, and heirs of that eternal glory to which we
all aspire from our inmost heart.
15. If a true Christian mother weigh well these
things, she will indeed understand with a sense of deep consolation that
of her the words of Our Savior were spoken: "A woman . . . when she hath
brought forth the child remembereth no more the anguish, for joy that a
man is born into the world";[17] and proving herself superior to all the
pains and cares and solicitudes of her maternal office with a more just
and holy joy than that of the Roman matron, the mother of the Gracchi,
she will rejoice in the Lord crowned as it were with the glory of her
offspring. Both husband and wife, however, receiving these children with
joy and gratitude from the hand of God, will regard them as a talent
committed to their charge by God, not only to be employed for their own
advantage or for that of an earthly commonwealth, but to be restored to
God with interest on the day of reckoning.
16. The blessing of offspring, however, is not
completed by the mere begetting of them, but something else must be
added, namely the proper education of the offspring. For the most wise
God would have failed to make sufficient provision for children that had
been born, and so for the whole human race, if He had not given to those
to whom He had entrusted the power and right to beget them, the power
also and the right to educate them. For no one can fail to see that
children are incapable of providing wholly for themselves, even in
matters pertaining to their natural life, and much less in those
pertaining to the supernatural, but require for many years to be helped,
instructed, and educated by others. Now it is certain that both by the
law of nature and of God this right and duty of educating their
offspring belongs in the first place to those who began the work of
nature by giving them birth, and they are indeed forbidden to leave
unfinished this work and so expose it to certain ruin. But in matrimony
provision has been made in the best possible way for this education of
children that is so necessary, for, since the parents are bound together
by an indissoluble bond, the care and mutual help of each is always at
hand.
17. Since, however, We have spoken fully
elsewhere on the Christian education of youth,[18] let Us sum it all up
by quoting once more the words of St. Augustine: "As regards the
offspring it is provided that they should be begotten lovingly and
educated religiously,"[19] -- and this is also expressed succinctly in
the Code of Canon Law -- "The primary end of marriage is the procreation
and the education of children."[20]
18. Nor must We omit to remark, in fine, that
since the duty entrusted to parents for the good of their children is of
such high dignity and of such great importance, every use of the faculty
given by God for the procreation of new life is the right and the
privilege of the married state alone, by the law of God and of nature,
and must be confined absolutely within the sacred limits of that state.
19. The second blessing of matrimony which We
said was mentioned by St. Augustine, is the blessing of conjugal honor
which consists in the mutual fidelity of the spouses in fulfilling the
marriage contract, so that what belongs to one of the parties by reason
of this contract sanctioned by divine law, may not be denied to him or
permitted to any third person; nor may there be conceded to one of the
parties anything which, being contrary to the rights and laws of God and
entirely opposed to matrimonial faith, can never be conceded.
20. Wherefore, conjugal faith, or honor,
demands in the first place the complete unity of matrimony which the
Creator Himself laid down in the beginning when He wished it to be not
otherwise than between one man and one woman. And although afterwards
this primeval law was relaxed to some extent by God, the Supreme
Legislator, there is no doubt that the law of the Gospel fully restored
that original and perfect unity, and abrogated all dispensations as the
words of Christ and the constant teaching and action of the Church show
plainly. With reason, therefore, does the Sacred Council of Trent
solemnly declare: "Christ Our Lord very clearly taught that in this bond
two persons only are to be united and joined together when He said:
'Therefore they are no longer two, but one flesh'."[21]
21. Nor did Christ Our Lord wish only to
condemn any form of polygamy or polyandry, as they are called, whether
successive or simultaneous, and every other external dishonorable act,
but, in order that the sacred bonds of marriage may be guarded
absolutely inviolate, He forbade also even willful thoughts and desires
of such like things: "But I say to you, that whosoever shall look on a
woman to lust after her hath already committed adultery with her in his
heart."[22] Which words of Christ Our Lord cannot be annulled even by
the consent of one of the partners of marriage for they express a law of
God and of nature which no will of man can break or bend.[23]
22. Nay, that mutual familiar intercourse
between the spouses themselves, if the blessing of conjugal faith is to
shine with becoming splendor, must be distinguished by chastity so that
husband and wife bear themselves in all things with the law of God and
of nature, and endeavor always to follow the will of their most wise and
holy Creator with the greatest reverence toward the work of God.
23. This conjugal faith, however, which is most
aptly called by St. Augustine the "faith of chastity" blooms more
freely, more beautifully and more nobly, when it is rooted in that more
excellent soil, the love of husband and wife which pervades all the
duties of married life and holds pride of place in Christian marriage.
For matrimonial faith demands that husband and wife be joined in an
especially holy and pure love, not as adulterers love each other, but as
Christ loved the Church. This precept the Apostle laid down when he
said: "Husbands, love your wives as Christ also loved the Church,"[24]
that Church which of a truth He embraced with a boundless love not for
the sake of His own advantage, but seeking only the good of His
Spouse.[25] The love, then, of which We are speaking is not that based
on the passing lust of the moment nor does it consist in pleasing words
only, but in the deep attachment of the heart which is expressed in
action, since love is proved by deeds.[26] This outward expression of
love in the home demands not only mutual help but must go further; must
have as its primary purpose that man and wife help each other day by day
in forming and perfecting themselves in the interior life, so that
through their partnership in life they may advance ever more and more in
virtue, and above all that they may grow in true love toward God and
their neighbor, on which indeed "dependeth the whole Law and the
Prophets."[27] For all men of every condition, in whatever honorable
walk of life they may be, can and ought to imitate that most perfect
example of holiness placed before man by God, namely Christ Our Lord,
and by God's grace to arrive at the summit of perfection, as is proved
by the example set us of many saints.
24. This mutual molding of husband and wife,
this determined effort to perfect each other, can in a very real sense,
as the Roman Catechism teaches, be said to be the chief reason and
purpose of matrimony, provided matrimony be looked at not in the
restricted sense as instituted for the proper conception and education
of the child, but more widely as the blending of life as a whole and the
mutual interchange and sharing thereof.
25. By this same love it is necessary that all
the other rights and duties of the marriage state be regulated as the
words of the Apostle: "Let the husband render the debt to the wife, and
the wife also in like manner to the husband,"[28] express not only a law
of justice but of charity.
26. Domestic society being confirmed,
therefore, by this bond of love, there should flourish in it that "order
of love," as St. Augustine calls it. This order includes both the
primacy of the husband with regard to the wife and children, the ready
subjection of the wife and her willing obedience, which the Apostle
commends in these words: "Let women be subject to their husbands as to
the Lord, because the husband is the head of the wife, and Christ is the
head of the Church."[29]
27. This subjection, however, does not deny or
take away the liberty which fully belongs to the woman both in view of
her dignity as a human person, and in view of her most noble office as
wife and mother and companion; nor does it bid her obey her husband's
every request if not in harmony with right reason or with the dignity
due to wife; nor, in fine, does it imply that the wife should be put on
a level with those persons who in law are called minors, to whom it is
customary to allow free exercise of their rights on account of their
lack of mature judgment, or of their ignorance of human affairs. But it
forbids that exaggerated liberty which cares not for the good of the
family; it forbids that in this body which is the family, the heart be
separated from the head to the great detriment of the whole body and the
proximate danger of ruin. For if the man is the head, the woman is the
heart, and as he occupies the chief place in ruling, so she may and
ought to claim for herself the chief place in love.
28. Again, this subjection of wife to husband
in its degree and manner may vary according to the different conditions
of persons, place and time. In fact, if the husband neglect his duty, it
falls to the wife to take his place in directing the family. But the
structure of the family and its fundamental law, established and
confirmed by God, must always and everywhere be maintained intact .
29. With great wisdom Our predecessor Leo XIII,
of happy memory, in the Encyclical on Christian marriage which We have
already mentioned, speaking of this order to be maintained between man
and wife, teaches: "The man is the ruler of the family, and the head of
the woman; but because she is flesh of his flesh and bone of his bone,
let her be subject and obedient to the man, not as a servant but as a
companion, so that nothing be lacking of honor or of dignity in the
obedience which she pays. Let divine charity be the constant guide of
their mutual relations, both in him who rules and in her who obeys,
since each bears the image, the one of Christ, the other of the
Church."[30]
30. These, then, are the elements which compose
the blessing of conjugal faith: unity, chastity, charity, honorable
noble obedience, which are at the same time an enumeration of the
benefits which are bestowed on husband and wife in their married state,
benefits by which the peace, the dignity and the happiness of matrimony
are securely preserved and fostered. Wherefore it is not surprising that
this conjugal faith has always been counted amongst the most priceless
and special blessings of matrimony.
31. But this accumulation of benefits is
completed and, as it were, crowned by that blessing of Christian
marriage which in the words of St. Augustine we have called the
sacrament, by which is denoted both the indissolubility of the bond and
the raising and hallowing of the contract by Christ Himself, whereby He
made it an efficacious sign of grace.
32. In the first place Christ Himself lays
stress on the indissolubility and firmness of the marriage bond when He
says: "What God hath joined together let no man put asunder,"[31] and:
"Everyone that putteth away his wife and marrieth another committeth
adultery, and he that marrieth her that is put away from her husband
committeth adultery."[32]
33. And St. Augustine clearly places what he
calls the blessing of matrimony in this indissolubility when he says:
"In the sacrament it is provided that the marriage bond should not be
broken, and that a husband or wife, if separated, should not be joined
to another even for the sake of offspring."[33]
34. And this inviolable stability, although not
in the same perfect measure in every case, belongs to every true
marriage, for the word of the Lord: "What God hath joined together let
no man put asunder," must of necessity include all true marriages
without exception, since it was spoken of the marriage of our first
parents, the prototype of every future marriage. Therefore although
before Christ the sublimeness and the severity of the primeval law was
so tempered that Moses permitted to the chosen people of God on account
of the hardness of their hearts that a bill of divorce might be given in
certain circumstances, nevertheless, Christ, by virtue of His supreme
legislative power, recalled this concession of greater liberty and
restored the primeval law in its integrity by those words which must
never be forgotten, "What God hath joined together let no man put
asunder." Wherefore, Our predecessor Pius VI of happy memory, writing to
the Bishop of Agria, most wisely said: "Hence it is clear that marriage
even in the state of nature, and certainly long before it was raised to
the dignity of a sacrament, was divinely instituted in such a way that
it should carry with it a perpetual and indissoluble bond which cannot
therefore be dissolved by any civil law. Therefore although the
sacramental element may be absent from a marriage as is the case among
unbelievers, still in such a marriage, inasmuch as it is a true marriage
there must remain and indeed there does remain that perpetual bond which
by divine right is so bound up with matrimony from its first institution
that it is not subject to any civil power. And so, whatever marriage is
said to be contracted, either it is so contracted that it is really a
true marriage, in which case it carries with it that enduring bond which
by divine right is inherent in every true marriage; or it is thought to
be contracted without that perpetual bond, and in that case there is no
marriage, but an illicit union opposed of its very nature to the divine
law, which therefore cannot be entered into or maintained."[34]
35. And if this stability seems to be open to
exception, however rare the exception may be, as in the case of certain
natural marriages between unbelievers, or amongst Christians in the case
of those marriages which though valid have not been consummated, that
exception does not depend on the will of men nor on that of any merely
human power, but on divine law, of which the only guardian and
interpreter is the Church of Christ. However, not even this power can
ever affect for any cause whatsoever a Christian marriage which is valid
and has been consummated, for as it is plain that here the marriage
contract has its full completion, so, by the will of God, there is also
the greatest firmness and indissolubility which may not be destroyed by
any human authority.
36. If we wish with all reverence to inquire
into the intimate reason of this divine decree, Venerable Brethren, we
shall easily see it in the mystical signification of Christian marriage
which is fully and perfectly verified in consummated marriage between
Christians. For, as the Apostle says in his Epistle to the
Ephesians,[35] the marriage of Christians recalls that most perfect
union which exists between Christ and the Church: "Sacramentum hoc
magnum est, ego autem dico, in Christo et in ecclesia;" which union, as
long as Christ shall live and the Church through Him, can never be
dissolved by any separation. And this St. Augustine clearly declares in
these words: "This is safeguarded in Christ and the Church, which,
living with Christ who lives for ever may never be divorced from Him.
The observance of this sacrament is such in the City of God . . . that
is, in the Church of Christ, that when for the sake of begetting
children, women marry or are taken to wife, it is wrong to leave a wife
that is sterile in order to take another by whom children may be hand.
Anyone doing this is guilty of adultery, just as if he married another,
guilty not by the law of the day, according to which when one's partner
is put away another may be taken, which the Lord allowed in the law of
Moses because of the hardness of the hearts of the people of Israel; but
by the law of the Gospel."[36]
37. Indeed, how many and how important are the
benefits which flow from the indissolubility of matrimony cannot escape
anyone who gives even a brief consideration either to the good of the
married parties and the offspring or to the welfare of human society.
First of all, both husband and wife possess a positive guarantee of the
endurance of this stability which that generous yielding of their
persons and the intimate fellowship of their hearts by their nature
strongly require, since true love never falls away.[37] Besides, a
strong bulwark is set up in defense of a loyal chastity against
incitements to infidelity, should any be encountered either from within
or from without; any anxious fear lest in adversity or old age the other
spouse would prove unfaithful is precluded and in its place there reigns
a calm sense of security. Moreover, the dignity of both man and wife is
maintained and mutual aid is most satisfactorily assured, while through
the indissoluble bond, always enduring, the spouses are warned
continuously that not for the sake of perishable things nor that they
may serve their passions, but that they may procure one for the other
high and lasting good have they entered into the nuptial partnership, to
be dissolved only by death. In the training and education of children,
which must extend over a period of many years, it plays a great part,
since the grave and long enduring burdens of this office are best borne
by the united efforts of the parents. Nor do lesser benefits accrue to
human society as a whole. For experience has taught that unassailable
stability in matrimony is a fruitful source of virtuous life and of
habits of integrity. Where this order of things obtains, the happiness
and well being of the nation is safely guarded; what the families and
individuals are, so also is the State, for a body is determined by its
parts. Wherefore, both for the private good of husband, wife and
children, as likewise for the public good of human society, they indeed
deserve well who strenuously defend the inviolable stability of
matrimony.
38. But considering the benefits of the
Sacrament, besides the firmness and indissolubility, there are also much
higher emoluments as the word "sacrament" itself very aptly indicates;
for to Christians this is not a meaningless and empty name. Christ the
Lord, the Institutor and "Perfecter" of the holy sacraments,[38] by
raising the matrimony of His faithful to the dignity of a true sacrament
of the New Law, made it a sign and source of that peculiar internal
grace by which "it perfects natural love, it confirms an indissoluble
union, and sanctifies both man and wife."[39]
39. And since the valid matrimonial consent
among the faithful was constituted by Christ as a sign of grace, the
sacramental nature is so intimately bound up with Christian wedlock that
there can be no true marriage between baptized persons "without it being
by that very fact a sacrament."[40]
40. By the very fact, therefore, that the
faithful with sincere mind give such consent, they open up for
themselves a treasure of sacramental grace from which they draw
supernatural power for the fulfilling of their rights and duties
faithfully, holily, perseveringly even unto death. Hence this sacrament
not only increases sanctifying grace, the permanent principle of the
supernatural life, in those who, as the expression is, place no obstacle
(obex) in its way, but also adds particular gifts, dispositions, seeds
of grace, by elevating and perfecting the natural powers. By these gifts
the parties are assisted not only in understanding, but in knowing
intimately, in adhering to firmly, in willing effectively, and in
successfully putting into practice, those things which pertain to the
marriage state, its aims and duties, giving them in fine right to the
actual assistance of grace, whensoever they need it for fulfilling the
duties of their state.
41. Nevertheless, since it is a law of divine
Providence in the supernatural order that men do not reap the full fruit
of the Sacraments which they receive after acquiring the use of reason
unless they cooperate with grace, the grace of matrimony will remain for
the most part an unused talent hidden in the field unless the parties
exercise these supernatural powers and cultivate and develop the seeds
of grace they have received. If, however, doing all that lies with their
power, they cooperate diligently, they will be able with ease to bear
the burdens of their state and to fulfill their duties. By such a
sacrament they will be strengthened, sanctified and in a manner
consecrated. For, as St. Augustine teaches, just as by Baptism and Holy
Orders a man is set aside and assisted either for the duties of
Christian life or for the priestly office and is never deprived of their
sacramental aid, almost in the same way (although not by a sacramental
character), the faithful once joined by marriage ties can never be
deprived of the help and the binding force of the sacrament. Indeed, as
the Holy Doctor adds, even those who commit adultery carry with them
that sacred yoke, although in this case not as a title to the glory of
grace but for the ignominy of their guilty action, "as the soul by
apostasy, withdrawing as it were from marriage with Christ, even though
it may have lost its faith, does not lose the sacrament of Faith which
it received at the laver of regeneration."[41]
42. These parties, let it be noted, not
fettered but adorned by the golden bond of the sacrament, not hampered
but assisted, should strive with all their might to the end that their
wedlock, not only through the power and symbolism of the sacrament, but
also through their spirit and manner of life, may be and remain always
the living image of that most fruitful union of Christ with the Church,
which is to venerated as the sacred token of most perfect love.
43. All of these things, Venerable Brethren,
you must consider carefully and ponder over with a lively faith if you
would see in their true light the extraordinary benefits on matrimony --
offspring, conjugal faith, and the sacrament. No one can fail to admire
the divine Wisdom, Holiness and Goodness which, while respecting the
dignity and happiness of husband and wife, has provided so bountifully
for the conservation and propagation of the human race by a single
chaste and sacred fellowship of nuptial union.
44. When we consider the great excellence of
chaste wedlock, Venerable Brethren, it appears all the more regrettable
that particularly in our day we should witness this divine institution
often scorned and on every side degraded.
45. For now, alas, not secretly nor under
cover, but openly, with all sense of shame put aside, now by word again
by writings, by theatrical productions of every kind, by romantic
fiction, by amorous and frivolous novels, by cinematographs portraying
in vivid scene, in addresses broadcast by radio telephony, in short by
all the inventions of modern science, the sanctity of marriage is
trampled upon and derided; divorce, adultery, all the basest vices
either are extolled or at least are depicted in such colors as to appear
to be free of all reproach and infamy. Books are not lacking which dare
to pronounce themselves as scientific but which in truth are merely
coated with a veneer of science in order that they may the more easily
insinuate their ideas. The doctrines defended in these are offered for
sale as the productions of modern genius, of that genius namely, which,
anxious only for truth, is considered to have emancipated itself from
all those old-fashioned and immature opinions of the ancients; and to
the number of these antiquated opinions they relegate the traditional
doctrine of Christian marriage.
46. These thoughts are instilled into men of
every class, rich and poor, masters and workers, lettered and
unlettered, married and single, the godly and godless, old and young,
but for these last, as easiest prey, the worst snares are laid.
47. Not all the sponsors of these new doctrines
are carried to the extremes of unbridled lust; there are those who,
striving as it were to ride a middle course, believe nevertheless that
something should be conceded in our times as regards certain precepts of
the divine and natural law. But these likewise, more or less wittingly,
are emissaries of the great enemy who is ever seeking to sow cockle
among the wheat.[42] We, therefore, whom the Father has appointed over
His field, We who are bound by Our most holy office to take care lest
the good seed be choked by the weeds, believe it fitting to apply to
Ourselves the most grave words of the Holy Ghost with which the Apostle
Paul exhorted his beloved Timothy: "Be thou vigilant . . . Fulfill thy
ministry . . . Preach the word, be instant in season, out of season,
reprove, entreat, rebuke in all patience and doctrine."[43]
48. And since, in order that the deceits of the
enemy may be avoided, it is necessary first of all that they be laid
bare; since much is to be gained by denouncing these fallacies for the
sake of the unwary, even though We prefer not to name these iniquities
"as becometh saints,"[44] yet for the welfare of souls We cannot remain
altogether silent.
49. To begin at the very source of these evils,
their basic principle lies in this, that matrimony is repeatedly
declared to be not instituted by the Author of nature nor raised by
Christ the Lord to the dignity of a true sacrament, but invented by man.
Some confidently assert that they have found no evidence of the
existence of matrimony in nature or in her laws, but regard it merely as
the means of producing life and of gratifying in one way or another a
vehement impulse; on the other hand, others recognize that certain
beginnings or, as it were, seeds of true wedlock are found in the nature
of man since, unless men were bound together by some form of permanent
tie, the dignity of husband and wife or the natural end of propagating
and rearing the offspring would not receive satisfactory provision. At
the same time they maintain that in all beyond this germinal idea
matrimony, through various concurrent causes, is invented solely by the
mind of man, established solely by his will.
50. How grievously all these err and how
shamelessly they leave the ways of honesty is already evident from what
we have set forth here regarding the origin and nature of wedlock, its
purposes and the good inherent in it. The evil of this teaching is
plainly seen from the consequences which its advocates deduce from it,
namely, that the laws, institutions and customs by which wedlock is
governed, since they take their origin solely from the will of man, are
subject entirely to him, hence can and must be founded, changed and
abrogated according to human caprice and the shifting circumstances of
human affairs; that the generative power which is grounded in nature
itself is more sacred and has wider range than matrimony -- hence it may
be exercised both outside as well as within the confines of wedlock, and
though the purpose of matrimony be set aside, as though to suggest that
the license of a base fornicating woman should enjoy the same rights as
the chaste motherhood of a lawfully wedded wife.
51. Armed with these principles, some men go so
far as to concoct new species of unions, suited, as they say, to the
present temper of men and the times, which various new forms of
matrimony they presume to label "temporary," "experimental," and
"companionate." These offer all the indulgence of matrimony and its
rights without, however, the indissoluble bond, and without offspring,
unless later the parties alter their cohabitation into a matrimony in
the full sense of the law.
52. Indeed there are some who desire and insist
that these practices be legitimatized by the law or, at least, excused
by their general acceptance among the people. They do not seem even to
suspect that these proposals partake of nothing of the modern "culture"
in which they glory so much, but are simply hateful abominations which
beyond all question reduce our truly cultured nations to the barbarous
standards of savage peoples.
53. And now, Venerable Brethren, we shall
explain in detail the evils opposed to each of the benefits of
matrimony. First consideration is due to the offspring, which many have
the boldness to call the disagreeable burden of matrimony and which they
say is to be carefully avoided by married people not through virtuous
continence (which Christian law permits in matrimony when both parties
consent) but by frustrating the marriage act. Some justify* this
criminal abuse on the ground that they are weary of children and wish to
gratify their desires without their consequent burden. Others say that
they cannot on the one hand remain continent nor on the other can they
have children because of the difficulties whether on the part of the
mother or on the part of family circumstances .
54. But no reason, however grave, may be put
forward by which anything intrinsically against nature may become
conformable to nature and morally good. Since, therefore, the conjugal
act is destined primarily by nature for the begetting of children, those
who in exercising it deliberately frustrate its natural power and
purpose sin against nature and commit a deed which is shameful and
intrinsically vicious.
55. Small wonder, therefore, if Holy Writ bears
witness that the Divine Majesty regards with greatest detestation this
horrible crime and at times has punished it with death. As St. Augustine
notes, "Intercourse even with one's legitimate wife is unlawful and
wicked where the conception of the offspring is prevented. Onan, the son
of Juda, did this and the Lord killed him for it."[45]
56. Since, therefore, openly departing from the
uninterrupted Christian tradition some recently have judged it possible
solemnly to declare another doctrine regarding this question, the
Catholic Church, to whom God has entrusted the defense of the integrity
and purity of morals, standing erect in the midst of the moral ruin
which surrounds her, in order that she may preserve the chastity of the
nuptial union from being defiled by this foul stain, raises her voice in
token of her divine ambassadorship and through Our mouth proclaims anew:
any use whatsoever of matrimony exercised in such a way that the act is
deliberately frustrated in its natural power to generate life is an
offense against the law of God and of nature, and those who indulge in
such are branded with the guilt of a grave sin.
57. We admonish, therefore, priests who hear
confessions and others who have the care of souls, in virtue of Our
supreme authority and in Our solicitude for the salvation of souls, not
to allow the faithful entrusted to them to err regarding this most grave
law of God; much more, that they keep themselves immune from such false
opinions, in no way conniving in them. If any confessor or pastor of
souls, which may God forbid, lead the faithful entrusted to him into
these errors or should at least confirm them by approval or by guilty
silence, let him be mindful of the fact that he must render a strict
account to God, the Supreme Judge, for the betrayal of his sacred trust,
and let him take to himself the words of Christ: "They are blind and
leaders of the blind: and if the blind lead the blind, both fall into
the pit.[46]
58. As regards the evil use of matrimony, to
pass over the arguments which are shameful, not infrequently others that
are false and exaggerated are put forward. Holy Mother Church very well
understands and clearly appreciates all that is said regarding the
health of the mother and the danger to her life. And who would not
grieve to think of these things? Who is not filled with the greatest
admiration when he sees a mother risking her life with heroic fortitude,
that she may preserve the life of the offspring which she has conceived?
God alone, all bountiful and all merciful as He is, can reward her for
the fulfillment of the office allotted to her by nature, and will
assuredly repay her in a measure full to overflowing.[47]
59. Holy Church knows well that not
infrequently one of the parties is sinned against rather than sinning,
when for a grave cause he or she reluctantly allows the perversion of
the right order. In such a case, there is no sin, provided that, mindful
of the law of charity, he or she does not neglect to seek to dissuade
and to deter the partner from sin. Nor are those considered as acting
against nature who in the married state use their right in the proper
manner although on account of natural reasons either of time or of
certain defects, new life cannot be brought forth. For in matrimony as
well as in the use of the matrimonial rights there are also secondary
ends, such as mutual aid, the cultivating of mutual love, and the
quieting of concupiscence which husband and wife are not forbidden to
consider so long as they are subordinated to the primary end and so long
as the intrinsic nature of the act is preserved.
60. We are deeply touched by the sufferings of
those parents who, in extreme want, experience great difficulty in
rearing their children.
61. However, they should take care lest the
calamitous state of their external affairs should be the occasion for a
much more calamitous error. No difficulty can arise that justifies the
putting aside of the law of God which forbids all acts intrinsically
evil. There is no possible circumstance in which husband and wife
cannot, strengthened by the grace of God, fulfill faithfully their
duties and preserve in wedlock their chastity unspotted. This truth of
Christian Faith is expressed by the teaching of the Council of Trent.
"Let no one be so rash as to assert that which the Fathers of the
Council have placed under anathema, namely, that there are precepts of
God impossible for the just to observe. God does not ask the impossible,
but by His commands, instructs you to do what you are able, to pray for
what you are not able that He may help you."[48]
62. This same doctrine was again solemnly
repeated and confirmed by the Church in the condemnation of the
Jansenist heresy which dared to utter this blasphemy against the
goodness of God: "Some precepts of God are, when one considers the
powers which man possesses, impossible of fulfillment even to the just
who wish to keep the law and strive to do so; grace is lacking whereby
these laws could be fulfilled."[49]
63. But another very grave crime is to be
noted, Venerable Brethren, which regards the taking of the life of the
offspring hidden in the mother's womb. Some wish it to be allowed and
left to the will of the father or the mother; others say it is unlawful
unless there are weighty reasons which they call by the name of medical,
social, or eugenic "indication." Because this matter falls under the
penal laws of the state by which the destruction of the offspring
begotten but unborn is forbidden, these people demand that the
"indication," which in one form or another they defend, be recognized as
such by the public law and in no way penalized. There are those,
moreover, who ask that the public authorities provide aid for these
death-dealing operations, a thing, which, sad to say, everyone knows is
of very frequent occurrence in some places.
64. As to the "medical and therapeutic
indication" to which, using their own words, we have made reference,
Venerable Brethren, however much we may pity the mother whose health and
even life is gravely imperiled in the performance of the duty allotted
to her by nature, nevertheless what could ever be a sufficient reason
for excusing in any way the direct murder of the innocent? This is
precisely what we are dealing with here. Whether inflicted upon the
mother or upon the child, it is against the precept of God and the law
of nature: "Thou shalt not kill:"[50] The life of each is equally
sacred, and no one has the power, not even the public authority, to
destroy it. It is of no use to appeal to the right of taking away life
for here it is a question of the innocent, whereas that right has regard
only to the guilty; nor is there here question of defense by bloodshed
against an unjust aggressor (for who would call an innocent child an
unjust aggressor?); again there is not question here of what is called
the "law of extreme necessity" which could even extend to the direct
killing of the innocent. Upright and skillful doctors strive most
praiseworthily to guard and preserve the lives of both mother and child;
on the contrary, those show themselves most unworthy of the noble
medical profession who encompass the death of one or the other, through
a pretense at practicing medicine or through motives of misguided pity.
65. All of which agrees with the stern words of
the Bishop of Hippo in denouncing those wicked parents who seek to
remain childless, and failing in this, are not ashamed to put their
offspring to death: "Sometimes this lustful cruelty or cruel lust goes
so far as to seek to procure a baneful sterility, and if this fails the
fetus conceived in the womb is in one way or another smothered or
evacuated, in the desire to destroy the offspring before it has life, or
if it already lives in the womb, to kill it before it is born. If both
man and woman are party to such practices they are not spouses at all;
and if from the first they have carried on thus they have come together
not for honest wedlock, but for impure gratification; if both are not
party to these deeds, I make bold to say that either the one makes
herself a mistress of the husband, or the other simply the paramour of
his wife."[51]
66. What is asserted in favor of the social and
eugenic "indication" may and must be accepted, provided lawful and
upright methods are employed within the proper limits; but to wish to
put forward reasons based upon them for the killing of the innocent is
unthinkable and contrary to the divine precept promulgated in the words
of the Apostle: Evil is not to be done that good may come of it.[52]
67. Those who hold the reins of government
should not forget that it is the duty of public authority by appropriate
laws and sanctions to defend the lives of the innocent, and this all the
more so since those whose lives are endangered and assailed cannot
defend themselves. Among whom we must mention in the first place infants
hidden in the mother's womb. And if the public magistrates not only do
not defend them, but by their laws and ordinances betray them to death
at the hands of doctors or of others, let them remember that God is the
Judge and Avenger of innocent blood which cried from earth to
Heaven.[53]
68. Finally, that pernicious practice must be
condemned which closely touches upon the natural right of man to enter
matrimony but affects also in a real way the welfare of the offspring.
For there are some who over solicitous for the cause of eugenics, not
only give salutary counsel for more certainly procuring the strength and
health of the future child -- which, indeed, is not contrary to right
reason -- but put eugenics before aims of a higher order, and by public
authority wish to prevent from marrying all those whom, even though
naturally fit for marriage, they consider, according to the norms and
conjectures of their investigations, would, through hereditary
transmission, bring forth defective offspring. And more, they wish to
legislate to deprive these of that natural faculty by medical action
despite their unwillingness; and this they do not propose as an
infliction of grave punishment under the authority of the state for a
crime committed, not to prevent future crimes by guilty persons, but
against every right and good they wish the civil authority to arrogate
to itself a power over a faculty which it never had and can never
legitimately possess.
69. Those who act in this way are at fault in
losing sight of the fact that the family is more sacred than the State
and that men are begotten not for the earth and for time, but for Heaven
and eternity. Although often these individuals are to be dissuaded from
entering into matrimony, certainly it is wrong to brand men with the
stigma of crime because they contract marriage, on the ground that,
despite the fact that they are in every respect capable of matrimony,
they will give birth only to defective children, even though they use
all care and diligence.
70. Public magistrates have no direct power
over the bodies of their subjects; therefore, where no crime has taken
place and there is no cause present for grave punishment, they can never
directly harm, or tamper with the integrity of the body, either for the
reasons of eugenics or for any other reason. St. Thomas teaches this
when inquiring whether human judges for the sake of preventing future
evils can inflict punishment, he admits that the power indeed exists as
regards certain other forms of evil, but justly and properly denies it
as regards the maiming of the body. "No one who is guiltless may be
punished by a human tribunal either by flogging to death, or mutilation,
or by beating."[54]
71. Furthermore, Christian doctrine
establishes, and the light of human reason makes it most clear, that
private individuals have no other power over the members of their bodies
than that which pertains to their natural ends; and they are not free to
destroy or mutilate their members, or in any other way render themselves
unfit for their natural functions, except when no other provision can be
made for the good of the whole body.
72. We may now consider another class of errors
concerning conjugal faith. Every sin committed as regards the offspring
becomes in some way a sin against conjugal faith, since both these
blessings are essentially connected. However, we must mention briefly
the sources of error and vice corresponding to those virtues which are
demanded by conjugal faith, namely the chaste honor existing between man
and wife, the due subjection of wife to husband, and the true love which
binds both parties together.
73. It follows therefore that they are
destroying mutual fidelity, who think that the ideas and morality of our
present time concerning a certain harmful and false friendship with a
third party can be countenanced, and who teach that a greater freedom of
feeling and action in such external relations should be allowed to man
and wife, particularly as many (so they consider) are possessed of an
inborn sexual tendency which cannot be satisfied within the narrow
limits of monogamous marriage. That rigid attitude which condemns all
sensual affections and actions with a third party they imagine to be a
narrowing of mind and heart, something obsolete, or an abject form of
jealousy, and as a result they look upon whatever penal laws are passed
by the State for the preserving of conjugal faith as void or to be
abolished. Such unworthy and idle opinions are condemned by that noble
instinct which is found in every chaste husband and wife, and even by
the light of the testimony of nature alone, -- a testimony that is
sanctioned and confirmed by the command of God:"Thou shalt not commit
adultry,"[55] and the words of Christ: "Whosoever shall look on a woman
to lust after her hath already committed adultery with her in his
heart."[56] The force of this divine precept can never be weakened by
any merely human custom, bad example or pretext of human progress, for
just as it is the one and the same "Jesus Christ, yesterday and to-day
and the same for ever,"[57] so it is the one and the same doctrine of
Christ that abides and of which no one jot or tittle shall pass away
till all is fulfilled.[58]
74. The same false teachers who try to dim the
luster of conjugal faith and purity do not scruple to do away with the
honorable and trusting obedience which the woman owes to the man. Many
of them even go further and assert that such a subjection of one party
to the other is unworthy of human dignity, that the rights of husband
and wife are equal; wherefore, they boldly proclaim the emancipation of
women has been or ought to be effected. This emancipation in their ideas
must be threefold, in the ruling of the domestic society, in the
administration of family affairs and in the rearing of the children. It
must be social, economic, physiological: -- physiological, that is to
say, the woman is to be freed at her own good pleasure from the
burdensome duties properly belonging to a wife as companion and mother
(We have already said that this is not an emancipation but a crime);
social, inasmuch as the wife being freed from the cares of children and
family, should, to the neglect of these, be able to follow her own bent
and devote herself to business and even public affairs; finally
economic, whereby the woman even without the knowledge and against the
wish of her husband may be at liberty to conduct and administer her own
affairs, giving her attention chiefly to these rather than to children,
husband and family.
75. This, however, is not the true emancipation
of woman, nor that rational and exalted liberty which belongs to the
noble office of a Christian woman and wife; it is rather the debasing of
the womanly character and the dignity of motherhood, and indeed of the
whole family, as a result of which the husband suffers the loss of his
wife, the children of their mother, and the home and the whole family of
an ever watchful guardian. More than this, this false liberty and
unnatural equality with the husband is to the detriment of the woman
herself, for if the woman descends from her truly regal throne to which
she has been raised within the walls of the home by means of the Gospel,
she will soon be reduced to the old state of slavery (if not in
appearance, certainly in reality) and become as amongst the pagans the
mere instrument of man.
76. This equality of rights which is so much
exaggerated and distorted, must indeed be recognized in those rights
which belong to the dignity of the human soul and which are proper to
the marriage contract and inseparably bound up with wedlock. In such
things undoubtedly both parties enjoy the same rights and are bound by
the same obligations; in other things there must be a certain inequality
and due accommodation, which is demanded by the good of the family and
the right ordering and unity and stability of home life.
77. As, however, the social and economic
conditions of the married woman must in some way be altered on account
of the changes in social intercourse, it is part of the office of the
public authority to adapt the civil rights of the wife to modern needs
and requirements, keeping in view what the natural disposition and
temperament of the female sex, good morality, and the welfare of the
family demands, and provided always that the essential order of the
domestic society remain intact, founded as it is on something higher
than human authority and wisdom, namely on the authority and wisdom of
God, and so not changeable by public laws or at the pleasure of private
individuals.
78. These enemies of marriage go further,
however, when they substitute for that true and solid love, which is the
basis of conjugal happiness, a certain vague compatibility of
temperament. This they call sympathy and assert that, since it is the
only bond by which husband and wife are linked together, when it ceases
the marriage is completely dissolved. What else is this than to build a
house upon sand? -- a house that in the words of Christ would forthwith
be shaken and collapse, as soon as it was exposed to the waves of
adversity "and the winds blew and they beat upon that house. And it
fell: and great was the fall thereof."[59] On the other hand, the house
built upon a rock, that is to say on mutual conjugal chastity and
strengthened by a deliberate and constant union of spirit, will not only
never fall away but will never be shaken by adversity.
79. We have so far, Venerable Brethren, shown
the excellency of the first two blessings of Christian wedlock which the
modern subverters of society are attacking. And now considering that the
third blessing, which is that of the sacrament, far surpasses the other
two, we should not be surprised to find that this, because of its
outstanding excellence, is much more sharply attacked by the same
people. They put forward in the first place that matrimony belongs
entirely to the profane and purely civil sphere, that it is not to be
committed to the religious society, the Church of Christ, but to civil
society alone. They then add that the marriage contract is to be freed
from any indissoluble bond, and that separation and divorce are not only
to be tolerated but sanctioned by the law; from which it follows finally
that, robbed of all its holiness, matrimony should be enumerated amongst
the secular and civil institutions. The first point is contained in
their contention that the civil act itself should stand for the marriage
contract (civil matrimony, as it is called), while the religious act is
to be considered a mere addition, or at most a concession to a too
superstitious people. Moreover they want it to be no cause for reproach
that marriages be contracted by Catholics with non-Catholics without any
reference to religion or recourse to the ecclesiastical authorities. The
second point which is but a consequence of the first is to be found in
their excuse for complete divorce and in their praise and encouragement
of those civil laws which favor the loosening of the bond itself. As the
salient features of the religious character of all marriage and
particularly of the sacramental marriage of Christians have been treated
at length and supported by weighty arguments in the encyclical letters
of Leo Xlll, letters which We have frequently recalled to mind and
expressly made our own, We refer you to them, repeating here only a few
points.
80. Even by the light of reason alone and
particularly if the ancient records of history are investigated, if the
unwavering popular conscience is interrogated and the manners and
institutions of all races examined, it is sufficiently obvious that
there is a certain sacredness and religious character attaching even to
the purely natural union of man and woman, "not something added by
chance but innate, not imposed by men but involved in the nature of
things," since it has "God for its author and has been even from the
beginning a foreshadowing of the Incarnation of the Word of God."[60]
This sacredness of marriage which is intimately connected with religion
and all that is holy, arises from the divine origin we have just
mentioned, from its purpose which is the begetting and education of
children for God, and the binding of man and wife to God through
Christian love and mutual support; and finally it arises from the very
nature of wedlock, whose institution is to be sought for in the
farseeing Providence of God, whereby it is the means of transmitting
life, thus making the parents the ministers, as it were, of the Divine
Omnipotence. To this must be added that new element of dignity which
comes from the sacrament, by which the Christian marriage is so ennobled
and raised to such a level, that it appeared to the Apostle as a great
sacrament, honorable in every way.[61]
81. This religious character of marriage, its
sublime signification of grace and the union between Christ and the
Church, evidently requires that those about to marry should show a holy
reverence towards it, and zealously endeavor to make their marriage
approach as nearly as possible to the archetype of Christ and the
Church.
82. They, therefore, who rashly and heedlessly
contract mixed marriages, from which the maternal love and providence of
the Church dissuades her children for very sound reasons, fail
conspicuously in this respect, sometimes with danger to their eternal
salvation. This attitude of the Church to mixed marriages appears in
many of her documents, all of which are summed up in the Code of Canon
Law: "Everywhere and with the greatest strictness the Church forbids
marriages between baptized persons, one of whom is a Catholic and the
other a member of a schismatical or heretical sect; and if there is, add
to this, the danger of the falling away of the Catholic party and the
perversion of the children, such a marriage is forbidden also by the
divine law."[62] If the Church occasionally on account of circumstances
does not refuse to grant a dispensation from these strict laws (provided
that the divine law remains intact and the dangers above mentioned are
provided against by suitable safeguards), it is unlikely that the
Catholic party will not suffer some detriment from such a marriage.
83. Whence it comes about not unfrequently, as
experience shows, that deplorable defections from religion occur among
the offspring, or at least a headlong descent into that religious
indifference which is closely allied to impiety. There is this also to
be considered that in these mixed marriages it becomes much more
difficult to imitate by a lively conformity of spirit the mystery of
which We have spoken, namely that close union between Christ and His
Church.
84. Assuredly, also, will there be wanting that
close union of spirit which as it is the sign and mark of the Church of
Christ, so also should be the sign of Christian wedlock, its glory and
adornment. For, where there exists diversity of mind, truth and feeling,
the bond of union of mind and heart is wont to be broken, or at least
weakened. From this comes the danger lest the love of man and wife grow
cold and the peace and happiness of family life, resting as it does on
the union of hearts, be destroyed. Many centuries ago indeed, the old
Roman law had proclaimed: "Marriages are the union of male and female, a
sharing of life and the communication of divine and human rights."[63]
But especially, as We have pointed out, Venerable Brethren, the daily
increasing facility of divorce is an obstacle to the restoration of
marriage to that state of perfection which the divine Redeemer willed it
should possess.
85. The advocates of the neo-paganism of today
have learned nothing from the sad state of affairs, but instead, day by
day, more and more vehemently, they continue by legislation to attack
the indissolubility of the marriage bond, proclaiming that the
lawfulness of divorce must be recognized, and that the antiquated laws
should give place to a new and more humane legislation. Many and varied
are the grounds put forward for divorce, some arising from the
wickedness and the guilt of the persons concerned, others arising from
the circumstances of the case; the former they describe as subjective,
the latter as objective; in a word, whatever might make married life
hard or unpleasant. They strive to prove their contentions regarding
these grounds for the divorce legislation they would bring about, by
various arguments. Thus, in the first place, they maintain that it is
for the good of either party that the one who is innocent should have
the right to separate from the guilty, or that the guilty should be
withdrawn from a union which is unpleasing to him and against his will.
In the second place, they argue, the good of the child demands this, for
either it will be deprived of a proper education or the natural fruits
of it, and will too easily be affected by the discords and shortcomings
of the parents, and drawn from the path of virtue. And thirdly the
common good of society requires that these marriages should be
completely dissolved, which are now incapable of producing their natural
results, and that legal reparations should be allowed when crimes are to
be feared as the result of the common habitation and intercourse of the
parties. This last, they say must be admitted to avoid the crimes being
committed purposely with a view to obtaining the desired sentence of
divorce for which the judge can legally loose the marriage bond, as also
to prevent people from coming before the courts when it is obvious from
the state of the case that they are Iying and perjuring themselves, --
all of which brings the court and the lawful authority into contempt.
Hence the civil laws, in their opinion, have to be reformed to meet
these new requirements, to suit the changes of the times and the changes
in men's opinions, civil institutions and customs. Each of these reasons
is considered by them as conclusive, so that all taken together offer a
clear proof of the necessity of granting divorce in certain cases.
86. Others, taking a step further, simply state
that marriage, being a private contract, is, like other private
contracts, to be left to the consent and good pleasure of both parties,
and so can be dissolved for any reason whatsoever.
87. Opposed to all these reckless opinions,
Venerable Brethren, stands the unalterable law of God, fully confirmed
by Christ, a law that can never be deprived of its force by the decrees
of men, the ideas of a people or the will of any legislator: "What God
hath joined together, let no man put asunder."[64] And if any man,
acting contrary to this law, shall have put asunder, his action is null
and void, and the consequence remains, as Christ Himself has explicitly
confirmed: "Everyone that putteth away his wife and marrieth another,
committeth adultery: and he that marrieth her that is put away from her
husband committeth adultery."[65] Moreover, these words refer to every
kind of marriage, even that which is natural and legitimate only; for,
as has already been observed, that indissolubility by which the
loosening of the bond is once and for all removed from the whim of the
parties and from every secular power, is a property of every true
marriage.
88. Let that solemn pronouncement of the
Council of Trent be recalled to mind in which, under the stigma of
anathema, it condemned these errors: "If anyone should say that on
account of heresy or the hardships of cohabitation or a deliberate abuse
of one party by the other the marriage tie may be loosened, let him be
anathema;"[66] and again: "If anyone should say that the Church errs in
having taught or in teaching that, according to the teaching of the
Gospel and the Apostles, the bond of marriage cannot be loosed because
of the sin of adultery of either party; or that neither party, even
though he be innocent, having given no cause for the sin of adultery,
can contract another marriage during the lifetime of the other; and that
he commits adultery who marries another after putting away his
adulterous wife, and likewise that she commits adultery who puts away
her husband and marries another: let him be anathemae."[67]
89. If therefore the Church has not erred and
does not err in teaching this, and consequently it is certain that the
bond of marriage cannot be loosed even on account of the sin of
adultery, it is evident that all the other weaker excuses that can be,
and are usually brought forward, are of no value whatsoever. And the
objections brought against the firmness of the marriage bond are easily
answered. For, in certain circumstances, imperfect separation of the
parties is allowed, the bond not being severed. This separation, which
the Church herself permits, and expressly mentions in her Canon Law in
those canons which deal with the separation of the parties as to marital
relationship and co-habitation, removes all the alleged inconveniences
and dangers.[68] It will be for the sacred law and, to some extent, also
the civil law, in so far as civil matters are affected, to lay down the
grounds, the conditions, the method and precautions to be taken in a
case of this kind in order to safeguard the education of the children
and the well-being of the family, and to remove all those evils which
threaten the married persons, the children and the State. Now all those
arguments that are brought forward to prove the indissolubility of the
marriage tie, arguments which have already been touched upon, can
equally be applied to excluding not only the necessity of divorce, but
even the power to grant it; while for all the advantages that can be put
forward for the former, there can be adduced as many disadvantages and
evils which are a formidable menace to the whole of human society.
90. To revert again to the expression of Our
predecessor, it is hardly necessary to point out what an amount of good
is involved in the absolute indissolubility of wedlock and what a train
of evils follows upon divorce. Whenever the marriage bond remains
intact, then we find marriages contracted with a sense of safety and
security, while, when separations are considered and the dangers of
divorce are present, the marriage contract itself becomes insecure, or
at least gives ground for anxiety and surprises. On the one hand we see
a wonderful strengthening of goodwill and cooperation in the daily life
of husband and wife, while, on the other, both of these are miserably
weakened by the presence of a facility for divorce. Here we have at a
very opportune moment a source of help by which both parties are enabled
to preserve their purity and loyalty; there we find harmful inducements
to unfaithfulness. On this side we find the birth of children and their
tuition and upbringing effectively promoted, many avenues of discord
closed amongst families and relations, and the beginnings of rivalry and
jealousy easily suppressed; on that, very great obstacles to the birth
and rearing of children and their education, and many occasions of
quarrels, and seeds of jealousy sown everywhere. Finally, but
especially, the dignity and position of women in civil and domestic
society is reinstated by the former; while by the latter it is
shamefully lowered and the danger is incurred "of their being considered
outcasts, slaves of the lust of men."[69]
91. To conclude with the important words of Leo
XIII, since the destruction of family life "and the loss of national
wealth is brought about more by the corruption of morals than by
anything else, it is easily seen that divorce, which is born of the
perverted morals of a people, and leads, as experiment shows, to vicious
habits in public and private life, is particularly opposed to the
well-being of the family and of the State. The serious nature of these
evils will be the more clearly recognized, when we remember that, once
divorce has been allowed, there will be no sufficient means of keeping
it in check within any definite bounds. Great is the force of example,
greater still that of lust; and with such incitements it cannot but
happen that divorce and its consequent setting loose of the passions
should spread daily and attack the souls of many like a contagious
disease or a river bursting its banks and flooding the land."[70]
92. Thus, as we read in the same letter,
"unless things change, the human family and State have every reason to
fear lest they should suffer absolute ruin."[71] All this was written
fifty years ago, yet it is confirmed by the daily increasing corruption
of morals and the unheard of degradation of the family in those lands
where Communism reigns unchecked.
93. Thus far, Venerable Brethren, We have
admired with due reverence what the all wise Creator and Redeemer of the
human race has ordained with regard to human marriage; at the same time
we have expressed Our grief that such a pious ordinance of the divine
Goodness should to-day, and on every side, be frustrated and trampled
upon by the passions, errors and vices of men.
94. It is then fitting that, with all fatherly
solicitude, We should turn Our mind to seek out suitable remedies
whereby those most detestable abuses which We have mentioned, may be
removed, and everywhere marriage may again be revealed. To this end, it
behooves Us, above all else, to call to mind that firmly established
principle, esteemed alike in sound philosophy and sacred theology:
namely, that whatever things have deviated from their right order,
cannot he brought back to that original state which is in harmony with
their nature except by a return to the divine plan which, as the Angelic
Doctor teaches,[72] is the exemplar of all right order.
95. Wherefore, Our predecessor of happy memory,
Leo Xlll, attacked the doctrine of the naturalists in these words: "It
is a divinely appointed law that whatsoever things are constituted by
God, the Author of nature, these we find the more useful and salutary,
the more they remain in their natural state, unimpaired and unchanged;
inasmuch as God, the Creator of all things, intimately knows what is
suited to the constitution and the preservation of each, and by his will
and mind has so ordained all this that each may duly achieve its
purpose. But if the boldness and wickedness of men change and disturb
this order of things, so providentially disposed, then, indeed, things
so wonderfully ordained, will begin to be injurious, or will cease to be
beneficial, either because, in the change, they have lost their power to
benefit, or because God Himself is thus pleased to draw down
chastisement on the pride and presumption of men."[73]
96. In order, therefore, to restore due order
in this matter of marriage, it is necessary that all should bear in mind
what is the divine plan and strive to conform to it.
97. Wherefore, since the chief obstacle to this
study is the power of unbridled lust, which indeed is the most potent
cause of sinning against the sacred laws of matrimony, and since man
cannot hold in check his passions, unless he first subject himself to
God, this must be his primary endeavor, in accordance with the plan
divinely ordained. For it is a sacred ordinance that whoever shall have
first subjected himself to God will, by the aid of divine grace, be glad
to subject to himself his own passions and concupiscence; while he who
is a rebel against God will, to his sorrow, experience within himself
the violent rebellion of his worst passions.
98. And how wisely this has been decreed St.
Augustine thus shows: "This indeed is fitting, that the lower be subject
to the higher, so that he who would have subject to himself whatever is
below him, should himself submit to whatever is above him. Acknowledge
order, seek peace. Be thou subject to God, and thy flesh subject to
thee. What more fitting! What more fair! Thou art subject to the higher
and the lower is subject to thee. Do thou serve Him who made thee, so
that that which was made for thee may serve thee. For we do not commend
this order, namely, 'The flesh to thee and thou to God,' but 'Thou to
God, and the flesh to thee.' If, however, thou despisest the subjection
of thyself to God, thou shalt never bring about the subjection of the
flesh to thyself. If thou dost not obey the Lord, thou shalt be
tormented by thy servant."[74] This right ordering on the part of God's
wisdom is mentioned by the holy Doctor of the Gentiles, inspired by the
Holy Ghost, for in speaking of those ancient philosophers who refused to
adore and reverence Him whom they knew to be the Creator of the
universe, he says: "Wherefore God gave them up to the desires of their
heart, unto uncleanness, to dishonor their own bodies among themselves;"
and again: "For this same God delivered them up to shameful
affections."[75] And St. James says: "God resisteth the proud and giveth
grace to the humble,"[76] without which grace, as the same Doctor of the
Gentiles reminds us, man cannot subdue the rebellion of his flesh.[77]
99. Consequently, as the onslaughts of these
uncontrolled passions cannot in any way be lessened, unless the spirit
first shows a humble compliance of duty and reverence towards its Maker,
it is above all and before all needful that those who are joined in the
bond of sacred wedlock should be wholly imbued with a profound and
genuine sense of duty towards God, which will shape their whole lives,
and fill their minds and wills with a very deep reverence for the
majesty of God.
100. Quite fittingly, therefore, and quite in
accordance with the defined norm of Christian sentiment, do those
pastors of souls act who, to prevent married people from failing in the
observance of God's law, urge them to perform their duty and exercise
their religion so that they should give themselves to God, continually
ask for His divine assistance, frequent the sacraments, and always
nourish and preserve a loyal and thoroughly sincere devotion to God.
101. They are greatly deceived who having
underestimated or neglected these means which rise above nature, think
that they can induce men by the use and discovery of the natural
sciences, such as those of biology, the science of heredity, and the
like, to curb their carnal desires. We do not say this in order to
belittle those natural means which are not dishonest; for God is the
Author of nature as well as of grace, and He has disposed the good
things of both orders for the beneficial use of men. The faithful,
therefore, can and ought to be assisted also by natural means. But they
are mistaken who think that these means are able to establish chastity
in the nuptial union, or that they are more effective than supernatural
grace.
102. This conformity of wedlock and moral
conduct with the divine laws respective of marriage, without which its
effective restoration cannot be brought about, supposes, however, that
all can discern readily, with real certainty, and without any
accompanying error, what those laws are. But everyone can see to how
many fallacies an avenue would be opened up and how many errors would
become mixed with the truth, if it were left solely to the light of
reason of each to find it out, or if it were to be discovered by the
private interpretation of the truth which is revealed. And if this is
applicable to many other truths of the moral order, we must all the more
pay attention to those things, which appertain to marriage where the
inordinate desire for pleasure can attack frail human nature and easily
deceive it and lead it astray; this is all the more true of the
observance of the divine law, which demands sometimes hard and repeated
sacrifices, for which, as experience points out, a weak man can find so
many excuses for avoiding the fulfillment of the divine law.
103. On this account, in order that no
falsification or corruption of the divine law but a true genuine
knowledge of it may enlighten the minds of men and guide their conduct,
it is necessary that a filial and humble obedience towards the Church
should be combined with devotedness to God and the desire of submitting
to Him. For Christ Himself made the Church the teacher of truth in those
things also which concern the right regulation of moral conduct, even
though some knowledge of the same is not beyond human reason. For just
as God, in the case of the natural truths of religion and morals, added
revelation to the light of reason so that what is right and true, "in
the present state also of the human race may be known readily with real
certainty without any admixture of error,"[78] so for the same purpose
he has constituted the Church the guardian and the teacher of the whole
of the truth concerning religion and moral conduct; to her therefore
should the faithful show obedience and subject their minds and hearts so
as to be kept unharmed and free from error and moral corruption, and so
that they shall not deprive themselves of that assistance given by God
with such liberal bounty, they ought to show this due obedience not only
when the Church defines something with solemn judgment, but also, in
proper proportion, when by the constitutions and decrees of the Holy
See, opinions are prescribed and condemned as dangerous or
distorted.[79]
104. Wherefore, let the faithful also be on
their guard against the overrated independence of private judgment and
that false autonomy of human reason. For it is quite foreign to everyone
bearing the name of a Christian to trust his own mental powers with such
pride as to agree only with those things which he can examine from their
inner nature, and to imagine that the Church, sent by God to teach and
guide all nations, is not conversant with present affairs and
circumstances; or even that they must obey only in those matters which
she has decreed by solemn definition as though her other decisions might
be presumed to be false or putting forward insufficient motive for truth
and honesty. Quite to the contrary, a characteristic of all true
followers of Christ, lettered or unlettered, is to suffer themselves to
be guided and led in all things that touch upon faith or morals by the
Holy Church of God through its Supreme Pastor the Roman Pontiff, who is
himself guided by Jesus Christ Our Lord.
105. Consequently, since everything must be
referred to the law and mind of God, in order to bring about the
universal and permanent restoration of marriage, it is indeed of the
utmost importance that the faithful should be well instructed concerning
matrimony; both by word of mouth and by the written word, not cursorily
but often and fully, by means of plain and weighty arguments, so that
these truths will strike the intellect and will be deeply engraved on
their hearts. Let them realize and diligently reflect upon the great
wisdom, kindness and bounty God has shown towards the human race, not
only by the institution of marriage, but also, and quite as much, by
upholding it with sacred laws; still more, in wonderfully raising it to
the dignity of a Sacrament by which such an abundant fountain of graces
has been opened to those joined in Christian wedlock, that these may be
able to serve the noble purposes of wedlock for their own welfare and
for that of their children, of the community and also for that of human
relationship.
106. Certainly, if the latter day subverters of
marriage are entirely devoted to misleading the minds of men and
corrupting their hearts, to making a mockery of matrimonial purity and
extolling the filthiest of vices by means of books and pamphlets and
other innumerable methods, much more ought you, Venerable Brethren, whom
"the Holy Ghost has placed as bishops, to rule the Church of God, which
He hath purchased with His own blood,"[80] to give yourselves wholly to
this, that through yourselves and through the priests subject to you,
and, moreover, through the laity welded together by Catholic Action, so
much desired and recommended by Us. into a power of hierarchical
apostolate, you may, by every fitting means, oppose error by truth, vice
by the excellent dignity of chastity, the slavery of covetousness by the
liberty of the sons of God,[81] that disastrous ease in obtaining
divorce by an enduring love in the bond of marriage and by the inviolate
pledge of fidelity given even to death.
107. Thus will it come to pass that the
faithful will wholeheartedly thank God that they are bound together by
His command and led by gentle compulsion to fly as far as possible from
every kind of idolatry of the flesh and from the base slavery of the
passions. They will, in a great measure, turn and be turned away from
these abominable opinions which to the dishonor of man's dignity are now
spread about in speech and in writing and collected under the title of
"perfect marriage" and which indeed would make that perfect marriage
nothing better than "depraved marriage," as it has been rightly and
truly called.
108. Such wholesome instruction and religious
training in regard to Christian marriage will be quite different from
that exaggerated physiological education by means of which, in these
times of ours, some reformers of married life make pretense of helping
those joined in wedlock, laying much stress on these physiological
matters, in which is learned rather the art of sinning in a subtle way
than the virtue of living chastely.
109. So, Venerable Brethren, we make entirely
Our own the words which Our predecessor of happy memory, Leo Xlll, in
his encyclical letter on Christian marriage addressed to the bishops of
the whole world: "Take care not to spare your efforts and authority in
bringing about that among the people committed to your guidance that
doctrine may be preserved whole and unadulterated which Christ the Lord
and the apostles, the interpreters of the divine will, have handed down,
and which the Catholic Church herself has religiously preserved, and
commanded to be observed by the faithful of every age."[82]
110. Even the very best instruction given by
the Church, however, will not alone suffice to bring about once more
conformity of marriage to the law of God; something more is needed in
addition to the education of the mind, namely a steadfast determination
of the will, on the part of husband and wife, to observe the sacred laws
of God and of nature in regard to marriage. In fine, in spite of what
others may wish to assert and spread abroad by word of mouth or in
writing, let husband and wife resolve: to stand fast to the commandments
of God in all things that matrimony demands; always to render to each
other the assistance of mutual love; to preserve the honor of chastity;
not to lay profane hands on the stable nature of the bond; to use the
rights given them by marriage in a way that will be always Christian and
sacred, more especially in the first years of wedlock, so that should
there be need of continency afterwards, custom will have made it easier
for each to preserve it. In order that they may make this firm
resolution, keep it and put it into practice, an oft-repeated
consideration of their state of life, and a diligent reflection on the
sacrament they have received, will be of great assistance to them. Let
them constantly keep in mind, that they have been sanctified and
strengthened for the duties and for the dignity of their state by a
special sacrament, the efficacious power of which, although it does not
impress a character, is undying. To this purpose we may ponder over the
words full of real comfort of holy Cardinal Robert Bellarmine, who with
other well-known theologians with devout conviction thus expresses
himself: "The sacrament of matrimony can be regarded in two ways: first,
in the making, and then in its permanent state. For it is a sacrament
like to that of the Eucharist, which not only when it is being
conferred, but also whilst it remains, is a sacrament; for as long as
the married parties are alive, so long is their union a sacrament of
Christ and the Church."[83]
111. Yet in order that the grace of this
sacrament may produce its full fruit, there is need, as we have already
pointed out, of the cooperation of the married parties; which consists
in their striving to fulfill their duties to the best of their ability
and with unwearied effort. For just as in the natural order men must
apply the powers given them by God with their own toil and diligence
that these may exercise their full vigor, failing which, no profit is
gained, so also men must diligently and unceasingly use the powers given
them by the grace which is laid up in the soul by this sacrament. Let
not, then, those who are joined in matrimony neglect the grace of the
sacrament which is in them;[84] for, in applying themselves to the
careful observance, however laborious, of their duties they will find
the power of that grace becoming more effectual as time goes on. And if
ever they should feel themselves to be overburdened by the hardships of
their condition of life, let them not lose courage, but rather let them
regard in some measure as addressed to them that which St. Paul the
Apostle wrote to his beloved disciple Timothy regarding the sacrament of
holy Orders when the disciple was dejected through hardship and insults:
"I admonish thee that thou stir up the grace which is in thee by the
imposition of my hands. For God hath not given us the spirit of fear;
but of power, and of love, and of sobriety."[85]
112. All these things, however, Venerable
Brethren, depend in large measure on the due preparation remote and
proximate, of the parties for marriage. For it cannot be denied that the
basis of a happy wedlock, and the ruin of an unhappy one, is prepared
and set in the souls of boys and girls during the period of childhood
and adolescence. There is danger that those who before marriage sought
in all things what is theirs, who indulged even their impure desires,
will be in the married state what they were before, that they will reap
that which they have sown;[86] indeed, within the home there will be
sadness, lamentation, mutual contempt, strifes, estrangements, weariness
of common life, and, worst of all, such parties will find themselves
left alone with their own unconquered passions.
113. Let then, those who are about to enter on
married life, approach that state well disposed and well prepared, so
that they will be able, as far as they can, to help each other in
sustaining the vicissitudes of life, and yet more in attending to their
eternal salvation and in forming the inner man unto the fullness of the
age of Christ.[87] It will also help them, if they behave towards their
cherished offspring as God wills: that is, that the father be truly a
father, and the mother truly a mother; through their devout love and
unwearying care, the home, though it suffer the want and hardship of
this valley of tears, may become for the children in its own way a
foretaste of that paradise of delight in which the Creator placed the
first men of the human race. Thus will they be able to bring up their
children as perfect men and perfect Christians; they will instill into
them a sound understanding of the Catholic Church, and will give them
such a disposition and love for their fatherland as duty and gratitude
demand.
114. Consequently, both those who are now
thinking of entering upon this sacred married state, as well as those
who have the charge of educating Christian youth, should, with due
regard to the future, prepare that which is good, obviate that which is
bad, and recall those points about which We have already spoken in Our
encyclical letter concerning education: "The inclinations of the will,
if they are bad, must be repressed from chi |